Do they get it?

My other half and I have been together long enough that we should know how the other works and functions pretty good.

At least you'd think so.

Sometimes I don't feel like that is the case.

I am a busy person I work 40 hours a week. I leave my house as soon as the kids get on the bus for school. I don't get off work until an hour after they have already been home from school. So I come home, relax for about an hour, if that, and then I have to start dinner. Between that I have to squeeze in laundry clean up, tend to the baby who as soon as i am in sight of her, can't bare to had me out o her sight for more than 5 seconds. And she wants to be held all the time. So all of this I have to figure out how to do while tending to diva baby.

So it was requested that I make some crab rangoon. Which is a pain in the ass an highly time-consuming. I like to save such tasks as this for when I am of work as I don't have the pressure of everything else. Plus I have the memory of a knat so I forget a lot of things. Plus I am lazy I will admit it. I am fruit to change that but it's a slow change.

So the other half has to nag me all the time to do certain things I say I will as I forget.

But, when I try to explain the time consuming job this is plus trying to deal with diva baby, I get a lecture about I need to stop blaming the baby and just do what I say I'm going to do. Seriously??

So working, comic home, cooking dinner, tending to children, plus doing other household chores, taking a shower at 10pm is not obvious?? While you sit home with the baby all day?? Don't get me wrong. I don't mind that he stays home, but don't lecture me when I forget to do something or I am just to exhausted to do it.

Do men understand a woman's role and all the stuff we feel is our duty to do??